my birthday!

I turned 21 on December 23! It was a great birthday! I woke up to my hunnys cooking in bed and him singing to me and hundreds of texts saying happy birthdys from tons of my friends and family and went to work! It was a good day my family came to where our work was having lunch with a cake and sang to me! And that night bekki ramone and the rest of the girls took me out to RT o'sullivans for dinner it was soooo much fun a night to remember especially the wierd nomb guy in the double aided miror in the ladies bathroom! Ha ha ok so the girls had to go to the bathroom and there was only 3 stalls and there was 4 of us and so I was waiting! I was looking at the miror cuz it looked double sided and I could see this tall tree nomb leprican thing stabfind behind the miror! And I go "guys I think this miror is double sided" and they go nu uh! And came out and I went into the stall and did my business and came out looked at the miror again and sure enough it was gone! Hmmm am I going crazy? And I went back to dinner and I kept saying bekki I know I saw something! And so she went back in there and sure enough she saw it to I have a pic ill have to put it up it is really crazy. So ya it was tons of fun!

My husbands family frustrates me sooo much! He trys sooo hard to please them he is the youngest in the family and just wants to be accepted! They take advantage of him so much like his sister let's say? She is the only girl in the family! And she gets ANYTHING she wants! The day we were engaged I came up to her and said look ramone asked me to marry him sand I showed her my ring! And she says WHY? And I go because he loves me and I love him! No congrats or good no excitement nothing! Then we were moving in together after we got married and Ramone had a sterio a nice big one and she goes oh this is nice are you taking it with you? And he goes no Bobbi you can have it ! And she takes it and leaves! His mom dosnt call on his birthday! And just today she didn't get him anything for Christmas! Not even a call on the phone! Isn't that sad? And the worse thing is his oldest brother paid for his sis a brand new laptop! I mean I know Christmas is about giving rather then receiving! But come on he got nothing! And when they do come into town! He is the last to know? No call no stoping by if he wants to see them he has to track them down! Man I wish I could say something to them to tell them how much they hurt him a little more inside everytime they do this to him! He works so hard to hide the pain but it is there! And tonight I saw it! I really don't know how he feels inside because I have been raised into a good family that loves me and they love ramone sooo much he has actually said that my dad and mom are more parents then his have ever been! Because they care, they call , they text him , they don't expect anything out of him! My bro and sis love him they love being around him they don't want the material items. Ugh one day I'm gunna tell them how I feel!

past week

Me and my cute cousin kailee

love this one



OK sooo this past week has been ok! i passed my finals with flighing colors.On saturday we went to look for houses and after looking at about 5 hundred billion we found the one we want it is perfect. but now we are trying to make an offer but it is just sooo complicated ugh!!! but any way we took a few photos for our christmas cards but not many so here are some of the good ones!!! we are going to need to find a new place to live in like this next month so if anyone knows somewhere let me know !

this weekend

So this weekend has been a pretty good weekend. we FINALLY got word that we are going to be able to start looking for our house. Its soooo exciting. and its christmas time and almost my birthday. Friday we worked all day and got to go get our baby mattie (our Dog) and she got to have a little slumber party with mom dad and uncle Jeff she was so happy. So Saturday was really good, my little brother Jeff finally kinda got to get out of the house he went to my uncle Stans house to help my dad with some work on some cars but at least he wasnt here mopping around the house and eating his troubles away.... i swear that kid can eat NON-STOP. so me and Ramone finally got some alone time. it was nice we slept in late and when i woke up he had breakfast ready for me and woke me up with the sound of him playting guitar. so we ate and then went to take our 3 kids (our dogs) to the dog park they had soooo much fun, Running and playing in the water. Shash even made a new friend a cocker spaniel who was much bigger then him in size and weight oh and did i mention she was a girl. He Proceeded to hump her while she was just casually sitting there. I would have Ramone go and pull him off her and we would take him clear accross the park put him down and blink he was darting back over to find her again. the owner just kept laughing and told ramone "its ok she is used to it" which i thought was pretty wierd. she told ramone that she would let us know if he is the daddy. wierd day. abd tomorrow we are going to get family pics ill put them up when i develop them.